Help, I'm confused about my sexuality as a teenager?

I think that your strong dislike for gay people may stem from your fear of being or becoming one. Having thoughts like this does not necessarily mean you are gay despite what gay reformists on here will say. You are who you are and at 14 you are a bit too young to know the answer. But, just because you kiss girls, does not mean you are straight either. On a happy note, gay is a choice you make, not a choice that is made for you at birth. Having thoughts toward other members f the same sex makes you curious, only acting on them makes you gay.